The Vital Importance of Emotional Intelligence

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Emotional intelligence (EI) is one of those things that becomes very important when someone on a team, or a leader, does not possess it. The success of a team and an organization requires that leaders and employees possess the EI to support and empathize with one another in a healthy way. I recently spoke with an HR professional about the importance of this attribute, among other things.

Meet Vivian Lee, SVP of People Innovation at Arkadium.

What got you into HR? How did you fall into the role?

My mom was an entrepreneur who owned her own business for about 25 years. So I grew up alongside an entrepreneur. After school, I went to work with my mom every day, and what that taught me was that I was intrigued by being a part of this business world. I also knew I did not want to own my own business myself. I think I saw enough high and lows that I said, “It’s exciting, but it’s a little too exciting.”

Then I thought, “OK. Well, how can I be a part of this? Maybe I should be an accountant.” In my naivety, I entered into a business program at university. I studied at the University of Toronto. I’m Canadian, by the way. My accent is mostly lost, but you’ll hear it pop up here and there. You might hear me say, “Eh.” My brilliant idea was to be an accountant, and I could be on the finance side of things in the business world. And I learned very quickly in my first year that I’m absolutely not a numbers person. I was miserable.

And luckily, my sister—we’re only a year and a half apart—and I were at the same university. She had a roommate who was enrolled in a major that was called Employee Relations, which I think is a fancier way of saying Human Resources.

Back then, I was early enough in my program that I switched majors to Employee Relations, which consisted of everything from employment law, a recruiting course, training and development, compensation and benefits, and analysis, and I was intrigued by everything I was learning, and I was much happier.

As cheesy as this sounds, I never looked back.

I think my first official annual paid salary role was as a recruiter. From there, I moved more into a generalist role because of my obsession with wanting to understand behaviors at work, why people act the way they act, or why they manage the way they manage.

I wanted to understand the decisions they make and why they’re overperforming or underperforming and understand what makes someone really special and talented in a role. I was obsessed with solving all of those enigmas, and being in recruiting was only one aspect of it.

That’s how I focused on and jumped into more of a generalist or business partner-type role and built my career from there.

Yeah, trying to understand human behavior is always interesting. Do you think you have a pretty good read on why people are doing what they’re doing?

If I figured it out, I’d be a billionaire. I am much closer to figuring it out than I was 10 years ago. I think I rely a lot on my gut intuition and emotional intelligence.

That is my secret weapon and something I am conscious of and have developed and nurtured over my career. I think I’ve been able to get to a healthy balance of factoring that in with data because I think that’s the push and pull of a lot of HR professionals—when to trust your gut on making decisions about individuals and people or using your gut to make a companywide change in initiative or strategic direction in what your department stands for.

Having worked at a tech company has helped grow that side of me a lot quicker than had I not worked at a tech company where I was able to learn best practices from my peers and how they use data to justify a lot of decisions.

Let’s talk about emotional intelligence for a second. Someone who relies on his or her gut who has emotional intelligence can be very humane. Someone who relies on his or her gut and does not have emotional intelligence can be massively destructive. Have you ever run into one of these people?

Oh, yes. Absolutely. I’ll make a pretty bold statement here: I think if someone’s emotional intelligence is not high enough, that person will not work out at Arkadium. I think that person will not work out in most places. At the end of the day, someone’s IQ or someone’s skill set can only take him or her so far.

But at a company—and really, when I say other companies, I can only imagine every company thinks the same way—where you’ll have human beings who are working every day, it is impossible to have someone be a part of a team, whether your company has 10 people or 1,000, and not expect there to be some sort of breakdown or toxicity if that person’s emotional intelligence is not what’s defined at your company. And anytime we’ve encountered somebody like that, I will just tell you, it has not worked out. It has not worked out because we value that so much.

Sometimes, people with low emotional intelligence become leaders. They’re not the majority of leaders, but there is a segment of leaders out there—people who, because they’re so driven toward results, find themselves in positions of power because people who are emotionally intelligent can’t really identify what’s happening. They’re seeing the results. They’re seeing this person is very driven, and then they’re sort of excusing his or her behavior. Can you think of a time, maybe outside of work or in another organization you worked for, when you had to navigate that, and what did you do about it?

Yeah. It’s very frustrating because I have encountered this situation; you work at a company where the outcomes or the success or the wins are very, very highly prioritized, and some way, somehow, this person has maneuvered himself or herself to the top or near the top.

This is where I think the power of peer feedback comes into play. What people don’t understand is that you could have these isolated wins that even that particular department led by that very successful individual could have. What you have to focus on is the ripple effect because there will be ripple effects. There’s a ripple effect, a down side, and a negativity and destruction in other areas. Continue reading here…

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